One more thing: a mantra from Dr. Kreidman that I really do use in times of a mini bomb.
"I trust that you will do what you think is best for the family."
Practice saying this the next time he want sto corner you with anything in person.
If it is on the phone:
"Let me think about that and then I will get back to you tomorrow. I cannot make a decision right now, but that sounds fine. I trust that you will do what you think is best for the family."
Maybe in his mind getting a place to live is the next step in separation. In your mind/ our mind it feels like another nail in the coffin. How do we see the positive part of that? Really? But like I said, my mom's man moved back and now he stuck with an expensive albatross mortgage in San Francisco!! Maybe he can rent it to my H, kidding. Your H and my H, two peas in a pod.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
