If you need to protectyour source, you can not really confront him. As hard as it is, you may just have to sit tight for now. I would set boundaries for yourself so that you feel comfortable. He is being selfish and not thinking about you. Therefore you must take care of you.

Take care.

Me29
H33
D9 months
S2
S9(previous R)
Sep 8-19-07
I file 11-5-07
H home (Retro) 2-15-08
"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9