Ouch! The truth...Now what?

[theotherhalf]

...H told me later that my calling her made her feel guilty for what was happening...it didn't totally stop the A in it's tracks but it dampened it and eventually she moved on...I don't know what to say here because only you know your H...

I too have called OW more than a couple times. She is an evil B***h! She demands that she is doing nothing wrong. Won't let me get too many words in as she is too busy screaming foul names to me and telling me how bad I am.

I think that those times I did call her did nothing but push him to her and then he'd come back at me in her defense.

As to how I KNOW they are still talking.

I do not want to tell ANYONE in fear that he will find out and then I won't have that insight. So please I do not want to say. I will say though that it IS 100% CONCRETE proof.