TOH... I know it seems so hopeless...I really know because at one point after I knew of OW H actually told me they were discussing marriage!!!...that is a kick in the gut... Nothing is in stone...nothing has been decided...there very well could be a physical affair going on...but the truth is that you can't say at this point that it will last...H is in MLC...it takes time...and yes, it is so very painful...but it isn't over yet...and if your lucky it own't be over
Take care....Your not alone...you just feel lonely and so deeply hurt...we understand....Lin
