Yes Almost...I see your point about the similarities between them. Kindred spirits. It just may work.

For me, I want something different in a serious relationship.

I understand what you mean about the ruminating. I find that when I am, it is because there seems to be a block that is keeping me from moving forward. I come to the boards in hopes of finding some 'push' forward. I get so agitated at times and wonder what it's about. There is more good in store for you Dear.

Hugs to you,
Mickey