These have been wonderful threads. It is nice to share with so many smart, savvy women.
"You'll know that you are the denial type if something has happened in yor life that would floor most people, but it hasn't even fazed you. You don't think about it or mourn your loss; you simply move on."
This describes my 'ex'. He jumped into another r and then realized he had not 'mourned his loss.' His ow went from an 11 year live-in r and met 'ex' less than 3 months after that ending. He called me not long after he moved in with her and told me he loved me. He told a friend he didn't expect to discover that. He threw himself into a new career with a huge amount of his mother's money at stake. This kind of pressure keeps his mind occupied. He is extremely intelligent but has the eq of about a middle school age boy. Not being mean, just honest here.
