pathetic is a good word, not to mention "thoughtless", "narcicisstic", "INFANTILE", "self-centered" and a myriad of others.
Yes, yes, and yes.
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I went in and said "I have a request - please don't email her while I'm home" Spouse tried to play dumb and I finally said "I think you understand what I'm asking" and walked away
Post bomb, when OW and H were still emotionally involved, I discovered that she was calling our home when I wasn't there. They were trying to hide cell phone records (the word "pathetic" comes to mind again lol) and she would go to pay phones and call H. I find this out, walked up to my H and calmly said, "I can't stop you from talking to her, but either you or I will call and tell her to stop calling my home. I don't care how high our cell phone bill is, she will not call my home anymore". He denied a bit, but the next day, the calls stopped. Go Boundary Woman!!
oh lordy things are moving. But where the F are they going? Woke up to find a note under my pillow:
"I am close to a decision. I just need the week ahead. I appreciate all you have done and are ding to keep things together."
First reaction: this is good news. Then I talked to her on the phone and she told me she took D8 out to dinner with OW last night. This is NOT good news. Sickens me. Looks like I have to endure the week ahead to find out where my life is going.
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
I wonder what the note means. I have a feeling its good. If your S was going to give you awful news, would they really put it in a note first? I don't know, but don't think so.
Limbo land, its evil, and is destroying me. Keep us posted.
Thinking of you, girl! Love to ya. Be positive that no matter what happens, what Ss 'decision' is, your life will be better from here on out. Believe that!
Oh, and I haven't posted this on my thread. Haven't decided if I'm going to, but thought you'd get a gag reflex from it. Friday night I called to say goodnight to my girls and D6 told me OW took her to the movie store and they got separated and D6 thought she might have left w/o her, so D6 went out into the parking lot to look for her. We had a talk about that. Then she asked if she could tell me one more thing... "OW is spending the night w/ us" (her kids were with her STBXH so it was just her).
Classy. How do I respond? I don't. Just shake my head at what a selfish moronic bastid my X has become.
Spouse just called and I could hear OWs kids in the background. What a treat. She wants D on Wed night and is really ticked that I had to think about it. I said "I thought this week was about taking a break" and she said "how can I know what it's like to have her twice a week if I only have her once?" Fine, take her. I give up. She won't be happy at anything less than 100% parenting so why not give her another night?
Kids should not have to go through this. And neither should we.
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
and did I mention that I wonder what spouse told D about not being home this week? I'll be damned if I'm probing an 8 yr old for info. (the agreement was we'd just tell her spouse was "housesitting")
And did I mention during the phone call with the lovely voices of C'tard's children in the background that spouse sounded on the verge of tears and never asked to speak to D? And she asked me if I wanted to go to yoga with her Tues night?
Payton Place got nothin on us baby! Slow Rockies! ooops I mean, Go D'backs! oops I mean death to all lying cheating sluts who are stupid enought to get involved with people who are weak enough to cheat. Bitter, no, not me...
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
and did I mention that I wonder what spouse told D about not being home this week? I'll be damned if I'm probing an 8 yr old for info. (the agreement was we'd just tell her spouse was "housesitting")
And did I mention during the phone call with the lovely voices of C'tard's children in the background that spouse sounded on the verge of tears and never asked to speak to D? And she asked me if I wanted to go to yoga with her Tues night?
Payton Place got nothin on us baby! Slow Rockies! ooops I mean, Go D'backs! oops I mean death to all lying cheating sluts who are stupid enought to get involved with people who are weak enough to cheat. Bitter, no, not me...
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
and did I mention that I wonder what spouse told D about not being home this week? I'll be damned if I'm probing an 8 yr old for info. (the agreement was we'd just tell her spouse was "housesitting")
And did I mention during the phone call with the lovely voices of C'tard's children in the background that spouse sounded on the verge of tears and never asked to speak to D? And she asked me if I wanted to go to yoga with her Tues night?
Payton Place got nothin on us baby! Slow Rockies! ooops I mean, Go D'backs! oops I mean death to all lying cheating sluts who are stupid enought to get involved with people who are weak enough to cheat. Bitter, no, not me...
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby
