Gosh, Angelica....I just don't know. I have been so confused about this whole mess, I've had to try to take a break from thinking it through.
He wanted to know...before he married her...if he could call me from time to time to see how I was. I told him no. Any conversation we had had after he met her was all about him, what he was doing in new job, etc. I felt our r was so one-sided prior to his meeting her anyway. I didn't feel any desire to have contact with him. I was so hurt and he was so insensitive.
My son told me that 'ex' was angry that I wouldn't see him or talk to him so he made certain I knew about his marriage to her the day before the 'wedding'. He sent his D18 to tell us. He was either real pleasant or mad and vindictive throughout our r. Nothing in between.
