I certainly believe that we have established the need for praise and adulation as one particular component of MLC. My ex was balding and constantly made references to this. I told him he could shave his head and I would still think he was the sexiest man alive. This didn't help tho.
He couldn't stand for me to talk to anyone else, even women at times. He had to have constant attention. It will certainly drain you to have to constantly validate someone else.
The ow believes the sun rises and sets in him. A mutual friend said that she would lay herself in a mud puddle so he would not have to get his feet dirty. I think he found what he needed.
