All hope is lost/help

[Evie]

cat your reply made me cry. Everything you said had just happened to you, i'm feeling right now. I so sypathise with you. What happened to make you want to unload? Was it after H was quite cruel when he offloaded? Did you see his T?

What new path and goals have you set?

I'm at the exact same stage. I've written H a very brief letter this am. Things need to be said, whether in a letter/text/email/face to face. What I need to tell him is that although i asked him to stay and live as friends, it's not working for me. I want to tell him what my needs are and to reinforce that i still love him and am still prepared to work at it. He needs to know that I'm not happy with the way things are and that him still been here is giving me false hope.

I have read what you said, however, can a marraige begin again from this? He believes he is here as friends, i think he is here because he can't afford to move out. (I tell you, I get more from my friend in terms of affection, good times, and support) I've tried really hard with been positive etc but he is not willing to go out with me, sit in the same room for very long or talk about anything other than work and kids. I don't understand why he is been like this when we had such a lovely weekend last weekend. I don't even want to talk to him and i have reverted back to ignoring him and i shall distance myself again, even further. Right now I am tempted to just tell him to leave.


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