I think getting involved with telling OW would push him away at this moment.

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this morning I am so numb. I can't even cry. I feel so used, so hopeless, so hurt


I am so sorry!!! Its awful. Sometimes the shock keeps us from feeling anything. After H confessed, it took me 4 days, and then I finally cried. HARD. Before that, I was a robot going through motions, not eating or sleeping. Please take care of yourself.