Thanks for asking Saffie, This weekend has been such an up and down that I'm back to the place where I don't know how long emotionally and physically I can take anything. Friday night my wife invited me to her apartment to hang out. She opened up about the OM and said she had called him 3 times on his cellphone before he answered and then he was snotty. She called back and told him to "F" off and told me she wants to start looking for another job and says she is not going to bother with him. She was saying things that made me believe she is considering coming home. Like asking if I think she can get out of her lease, wondering if we could have a joint bank account again without redoing the acct, etc. But the downside to all this good news is when Saturday morning rolled around yesterday, she was back to not talking and acting depressed. I also noticed she had a bunch of pictures turned upside down next to her computer. I know they were pictures of the OM. I didn't say anything that I noticed them but that shows me she is having doubts about supposedly breaking it off with him. She still has feelings for him because she said they can't just go away overnight. So does ANYONE believe she wants to break it off or was it just a momentary lapse because she missed home. It's here birthday today and my son and I made a beautiful gift basket for her. It's really beautiful. When I called her this morning to wish her a happy birthday, she was very short on the phone and wouldn't really talk. She told my son she was visting today and when I asked her what time she was coming, she seemed agitated and would only say later. I was NOT calling to beg, or pursue. Just a simple Happy Birthday and to see what time she was coming so we would know. I'm back to crying hysterically this morning wondering what I did wrong and if she is going back with OM after she claims she wasn't. And remember SHE IS THE ONE who brought up not wanting to deal with him.
