I am just speechless that this was allowed to happen....
And as a small side note, why are you responsible for buying parts for S's car? I can't believe that this is even considered when determining who would get custody...I must be missing something.....
Is an appeal an option?
My heart absolutely breaks for you when I think of your situation.... My thoughts and prayers are with you.....
Please try and take care of yourself as you will need your strength. I noticed the time of your posting - I don't know where you are located, but if you are an east coast gal, you were up very, very late!