That's not a selfish way to think at all. This OM sounds like a right bum. Would you still have her back if she came to her senses? Some how Andy you seem to deserve so much more......and so does your daughter.

I want to wack her with a 2x4 for you.

You are too nice my friend.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength