MY H down graded and OW was a DOG. She carried more weight than me, never exercised, wasn't as intellectually as sharp as me, (though I think she thinks she was). All in all a definate step down. She was younger but not by as much as your W's OM is. The only think she did do was smile more......and I think that she did that to cover up for when she didn't understand what was going on!!!!!
It does make you lose respect for your partner but once the fog lifts they are horrified for what they were settling for.
You my good man have a lot going for you. Ignore your wife. You are going to have the babes swarming over you when you are ready for it and that gorgeous D of yours is going to be an extra attraction. Your W is an idiot!!!!! Saffie By the way, thank goodness the French won as well - we have a much better chance of beating then next than if they had lost!!!!!
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength