It is not that you have to pretend that you have a male friend. It is that you have to portray that your life is busy and you arn't dwelling on the fact that he doesnt want to be home. When H said he was coming over at 2pm I would have purposely not been home. I would have arrived at 2:15 pm. I would have rushed in him nice to see you I will be down in a minute I am going to have a quick shower. He wants to see you happy and busy. The old routine is old. I remember doing the exact opposite of what I always did before. That is how I DB'd. I didnt even hint that I might Have another man. My H has a big refection Issue. Loretta
