Ouch! The truth...Now what?

[theotherhalf]

Just found out 100% that H is still talking to OW every single day. Anywhere from 10 to 45 min. He's even calling her from his work and she calls him at work. That is something H has never done only for important things

Now what? Lately I and some family members really thought H may have gotten rid of the OW. That maybe, just maybe he was coming around. What a damb fool I've been.

Never Ever Ever could I image this man being a cake eater. Really did not believe that he had it in him to be the kind of guy that does this. This man could not put that kind of hurt on me and his kids and be able to live withhimself. Never Ever, would my H ever let a woman control his very life.

Wow!!

I am so totally in complete shock. I am so hurt. So sick.

Here I have been sleeping with this man on a weekly basis and all along now I believe he is with her at least 2 times a week.

Now what?

The only thing I know for sure is that there will be no more "visits" to his house. No more going anywhere when he invites me. Not until if or when this thing with her is over. I will not let him do this to me and my girls any longer.

I have loved this man and still do with every fiber of my being. I have made my life the last 23 years all about him and his family. I DO NOT deserve to be treated so disrespectly, coldly, cruely. And I will not let it happen any longer.

Will I file for divorce? Not today. Tomarro who knows. I still do not want a divorce. And I continue to stand that I will not make it easy for him. Definately for him to be with her. I still believe in MY vows. So I will wait still...

Question is,
Do I tell H of my decision or do I just stop answering my phone and talking to him when he is here. If he asks why, what do I say?