Thanks for your posts..but Wiley..I just could not even imagine going out with another man...and especially just to spark something in h..I believe in the honor of m vows, I am still m...the only men I really know are our m friends...and I sure am not going to do that. Since I am not sure where h is in his feelings, doing that might just make him feel better about leaving me for good, knowing that I am not waiting around for him. I don't know if you have kept up with my thread at all, but partly we are where we are because I felt something was going on with h and ff...he assured many times not..when he moved out he wanted me to know that he needed space to think..and that was the only reason...in his way he wanted me to be sure and know that he was not going to be with her..at about the same time...she found a new man(unmarried) so h kinda got dumped as the friend that he was to her.
LL...I did ask for a hug a few months ago..and while he did not reject me, I had the feeling the next few times he came over he wanted to get out before I had the chance to ask again..so I have not since. I will have to keep watching.
