Why a man who has a low sex drive would cheat is beyond me. I think it makes it hurt even more. I have fought and fought for this marriage. I have made huge changes in myself for the better. Now I am at an all time low because I lost this trust and I feel so lonely. I just feel so vulnerable right now. I get hit on quite a bit. Lately I have felt well if he could possibly be cheating and deprives me of a sexual relationship maybe I should get my needs fullfilled elsewhere. Then on top of everything else I feel then comes the shame. Because I have a bad guilty conscience. I feel bad for even thinking those things. But yet I reason them in my head.
Tonight at an all time low.
Trying, If you could go back 7 threads on my thread you will see This same thing happened to me. I KNOW how you feel. My W had a low sex drive and then she has this affair
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
