I do hope things work out. I "camped" out with my son last night on our driveway. When I came in the house this morning W did not sleep in OUR bed. (She has been sleepingis son's bedroom). At first I thought she does not evern want to sleep in the same bedI slept in.I asked her how come she didn't sleep in OUR bed. She said that she didn't feel like moveing all of her stuff. (she has a sprcial pillow and some kind of other pillow thingy she sleeps with. So I am fighting with myself on my PMA
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Husband if she did gain weight it could explain the ring situation. After I had my son I gained weight and wearing my rings would hurt. So for awhile I wouldn't wear them. Now they are loose. Of course I lost like 40 pounds 5 years ago.
With the bedroom maybe she has just gotten so comfortable there. Or maybe it is her shame that keeps her from the marital bed.
Thanks, as you know it is hard not to think of the worst possible reason. Before all of this happen I would always think of a posative reason or just not worry about it. I need to build that trust agian. I have read part of your thread. I hit a bone when you said your H was trying to meet up with an old GF. This is want my W did. She hadthe affair with her old MARRIED bf. husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Sorry to hear that about the old BF. Yeah my husband was telling her how he has never been able to get her out of his head after all those years. Yuck!
I know it is hard for you. Slowly she will have to earn your trust back.
