He has detached from the kids in a transitional way.
I am so sorry that you haven't received any apology or remorse (mine is very little here too), but the above makes me the most sad, I think. They are innocent, brought into the world to be loved by the two people that made them. Its just not fair. I am sorry. I honestly don't picture myself trying to save our marriage either because there is only so much one person can do.
HUGS
Came back to say, what do you want? Do you want to file? Do you picture yourself ever healing from a D? What do you think H would do if you filed? What do you have to 'gain' from a legal S?
