Hi Hoping,
You are doing a great job at DBing, the laundry thing, my H did the same thing. He is coming over testing the waters. Also making sure you don't find someone else. I wouldnt be the one to make the first advance. You need to be kind friendly bubbly sexy like he is a new boyfriend. Let him make the first move. When he does make the move you cant make it to easy for him. I can share more if you would like as to what I did. H and I are back together atleast 3 years and everyday is better then the last.
Loretta