mk, I don't know if you know this about me, but my H and OW were caught 'together' in the car by a police officer. He ran both of their plates, and gave them a lecture about how he noticed they have two different last names and residences. Then proceeded to talk about us (the spouses) at home, caring for the house/kids, unknowing and undeserving of what they were doing. I am glad you speak up too, everyone should!!!
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Although my H chose to have an affair and lie, I think he is doing so out of desperation. Sounds sick, but kind of like an abortion. NO ONE wants that, they just get desperate and think it will save their future but it is a horrible experience. I really do not glamorize affairs, I think of it as a heroine binge gone wrong. Now the repurcussions are pretty bad.
I can totally understand this, about how our H's were so desparate and lost, this was the path they chose.
