Cinders..so funny..It took me awhile but I got it!! LOL
Angelica..My heasrt can get hardened at times, trust me..However, I refuse to be one of the divorce's who spends her life being angry..I will not do that..I don't want to hate XH, either..This all was meant to be and some where, some time, he will realize that too..
Well, he is definetly depressed. That is the cycle. Usually it goes from getting along with me, get back with OW and fight with me, they break up, he gets depressed and comes sniffing around here..
I got that text from him telling me to f-off a few days ago and Friday he sends me a text that he would love to see the kids if I needed a hand with them this weekend to let him know..that waws last night..I almost fell over..I get a text from him at 10:40 saying he will be working all weekend and has no plans other than that.
The kids get texts today..He contacted them four or five times..NEVER DOES THAT..Texts my D10 that he is at the beach ALONE collecting his thoughts..
Out of the blue..send her that at 5 p.m. today.
He is trying to get attention..
Is it bad to say I still feel bad for the sap?
I am not talking to him, though, after his nasty texts..
Oh, I have good news!! BTW..
My XH took the entire tax return from 2005 and pocketed it wihtout telling me..I was supposed to get half but he told me now way..
Well, I had stuff with the IRS anyway about my 2006 return so I told them what happend..they told me to fax my divorce decree to them and they would review it..
They awarded me half..3K!!
YAY FOR ME!
Now, I can pay off my lawyer..sigh..
Well, who cares..It is still more money than I had..And I feel vindicated because I went ahead with it after XH's bullying..
Got to go..New Guy waiting here on the couch ..time to get cozy.
