Quote: I am not a touchy, feely, huggy kind of person, and h was..but after 24 years I grew to like it and the past year I waited for him to make the first move...which became less and less.
I find this very similar to my situation. My W is NOT a touchy-feely kind of person, but I am (it's a "love language"). Over the years I believe she has come to like the attention, but will not show me very much attention in that regard. This has become a point of contention with me because it is something I really crave. My point? Maybe for you and your H, it might benefit you to try and make these advances again. Perhaps he's now in a place where he won't reject you, as it does seem like he's coming around a bit. Again, it's more of that probing we have to do to see what works...
