I can only speak for my situation, but pursuing in NO way helped one bit, not even now as we are back together in our living arrangement. If I even so much as put my arms out first for a hug goodnight it doesn't happen, if I just look up and say goodnight and turn back to the TV, she comes over and gives me a hug, can't figure that one out
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07