I can only speak for my situation, but pursuing in NO way helped one bit, not even now as we are back together in our living arrangement.
If I even so much as put my arms out first for a hug goodnight it doesn't happen, if I just look up and say goodnight and turn back to the TV, she comes over and gives me a hug, can't figure that one out


M 41
W 33
S8
S17
Bomb 3/11/07
S 3/28/07
New beginning? 8/31/07