Well when I got home from work today. Things were packed. Her move is going to occur this weekend. She has removed pictures of our daughter from the walls.........
I knew that this was coming for quite some time now, but it is so hard. She left me a note. "I will come by and move all of my stuff on Saturday, if it is ok with you" How do I answer that? NO ITS NOT OK........NONE OF THIS IS OK!!!! IT
It sucks! My wife has had her stuff packed up in the dining room for almost four weeks now, although she's not actually moved out yet. I'm not complaining that she's still there, but it misery to walk by every day and see all of the stuff just piled up.
I'm debating what the best thing to do is - Be a friend, and help her move and hopefully keep my 'foot in the door'? I can't imagine just ignoring her and making her do it on her own is going to do anything to make her feel like she should be with me.
I asked my wife if moving is what she really wants. She said no (at least, the time I asked she felt that way), but since she already had the rental agreement, she felt like she had to go through with it. All I know is that when she's motivated to move, it's the WORST time to talk to her about it. Don't do it!
