Hey, My H is really confusing the H*ll out of me. After last night's chat about 'what would you do if I moved out', today he seemed 'normal.'
He left do errands about an hour ago, had to pick up some things for work. A few minutes he calls me, says I'm not going to believe this, but he got a call from OW. She is a horse groomer and got hurt by a horse today and thinks her shoulder is broken. He took her the hospital as she (so she says) had no one else to take her (which I doubt, she has friends).
He swears up and down he didn't mean to see her when she was out and says I can look at the receipts to check the time he made his purchase, and his phone to check the time he called. Huh?
I know he's seeing her, and talks to her. Why this sudden attempt at being transparent??? And beyond that, after last night, I'm just sitting here in total confusion. I don't get it.
Perhaps my little comment about moving out to get his head straight was one thing, but moving in with OW would be another, and don't count on me being here if he changed his mind, sunk in. I think he really does know what he'll be giving up, or will be in danger of losing, if he leaves (or is at least considering it).
