Thank you soo much! I feel that I cannow reclaim Tori, too. U2 is next, then finally, and maybe when I am strong enough, the biggy, the Beatles. Just liek I can't imagine my life without my H, I can't imagine my life without the Beatles. They both help shape the freak I am today.
FLTC, Thank you for showing me the prespective from the Dad's POV. I have to remind myself how much my H is truly suffering. It must be so awful to lose a home and the daily contact. But you did nothing wrong-wrong.
Although my H chose to have an affair and lie, I think he is doing so out of desperation. Sounds sick, but kind of like an abortion. NO ONE wants that, they just get desperate and think it will save their future but it is a horrible experience. I really do not glamorize affairs, I think of it as a heroine binge gone wrong. Now the repurcussions are pretty bad.
Or maybe he is just having a fun vacation?? Who knows??
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."