Hi..Lisa I did ask him about a month ago when he was leaving..gave me a very nice one..but I don't want to start scaring him..as I don't know what his feelings are..it has on;y been 5 months..a long time, yet not really when someone is confused..needs space. SO I was not going to ask again for a hug. When I really feel confident I am going to try and talk to h..maybe tell him if he wants to talk I am ready to listen...I plan things to say, but when I am in person it does not come out the same way. Will see.. Sue