Yes, I am expecting him to take a step back. He has to be sure. He said so himself. Plus, he wants to see if I really am willing to give him that space.

No pressure. No expectations. Safe path home.

Thanks \:\)

I haven't sent the retro link yet. I want to be gentle. If he is withdrawing a little, which I expect, I don't want to send it at a time when he will reject it. I haven't heard from him yet. That's ok. I sent a pic of the kids at bedtime (they were all bundled in the blankets. So cute!) with a voice note from S2.

We are going to do some yard work and carry on as usual in our "home". \:\)


Me29
H33
D9 months
S2
S9(previous R)
Sep 8-19-07
I file 11-5-07
H home (Retro) 2-15-08
"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9