Yes, I am expecting him to take a step back. He has to be sure. He said so himself. Plus, he wants to see if I really am willing to give him that space.
No pressure. No expectations. Safe path home.
Thanks
I haven't sent the retro link yet. I want to be gentle. If he is withdrawing a little, which I expect, I don't want to send it at a time when he will reject it. I haven't heard from him yet. That's ok. I sent a pic of the kids at bedtime (they were all bundled in the blankets. So cute!) with a voice note from S2.
We are going to do some yard work and carry on as usual in our "home".
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9