I have been thinking about it for 3 weeks now. I am well over the 48 hours. To her nothing is going to change the situation but one of leaving. OK fair enough. Why should I be the one to leave? She is the one that does not know what she wants. If I leave what will she be missing? She will be in her house, in her bed, she will be around her kids, just me not there. I will have to go to my Mom and Dads house to live. It is fair if its me but unfair when I ask her to do it? Why do I have to be the one to run away from her issue. In her mind me going is the easier solution she has told me as much. How is it easier? I know by posting here I became the leader. I just don't see what she will be losing. Why do I have to give up everything and change my life. I am with you on leaving will be the death sentence. I am looking at it as the only way too right now. Why should it be me and not her to leave?
Last edited by Forrest Gump; 10/06/0704:56 PM.
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