Sorry to hear about the turn things have taken. Give it a little time to sink in before you take action. you know the 48 hour rule. Dude, you need to detach from the sitch a little bit, her actions seem to be having to much an effect on you. I don't know whether leaving is right or not. I am now moving down that path, if I had done it sooner would I be closer to healing in the M. I don't know. It was my feeling that seperating was the death sentence, but now I am looking at it as the only way.