I haven't even asked her about why she stopped wearing it. I'm considering talking to her about her about it (asking why, mostly), but I don't know if that would seem like chasing/being desperate or what.
Mostly, I feel she should still wear it because she's still married in fact, if not in desire. She made a commitment to me, and until that divorce is finalized, I feel that we should both still wear our rings. Saying something like that would certainly backfire, though.
I also hope my W hasn't pawned the ring. We bought eachother our wedding bands, and they've got an inscription on the inside of the band, too. Hers reads "[my initials] to [her initials] 7-8-2006". So there's alot of sentiment there.
It's surprising just how much seeing that empty finger hurts, isn't it?
As for your sitch, I have no clue how I'd approach the getting the rings back angle. If you even wanted to. :\
