All hope is never lost. No matter how bleak things seem. Adn, you are right, she is out of control. They are like drug addicts - especially at the beginning of an A - and you are trying to kill her high. So, she twists and turns everything so that it's seemingly your fault. If you aren't the bad one, then how can she excuse her behavior? Let it roll off and don't get sucked into her bitterness. You don't have to defend your behavior. You've done nothing wrong.

As for your GAL stuff, that really is for YOU not her.