I know that you are right about the snooping and I have stopped for the most part. Hurts me too much and like you said, I just come to my own conclusions when I really have no "real" idea what is going on.
I wasn't really snooping when I found the number. It was there on top of his check book. I guess the snooping part came about when I started investigating why he had it. But really why wouldn't I? I am still married to this man in my heart.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!