Get me on a smoother ride....need advice - part 3

[SueS]

Good morning-

A little backslide last night. Not really with words, more with actions.

I'd talked to H about a few things at work yesterday....good convo. I left work 1/2 hr. early & didn't tell H. He called when I was picking up D3 and asked where I was & why I hadn't returned his call. Told him I hadn't gotten it. That part was good too.

H called again after we got home. He asked if we wanted pizza for dinner & that he'd call on the way home & have me order it. H called on the way home & we took care of that. Not real long convos., but still good ones....upbeat, happy.

H got home and was in a decent mood. We started eating. Then I saw it!! No wedding ring on. I lost my appetite right away and my mood sunk. I just couldn't figure out why he'd taken it off. I helped D3 finish with everything from dinner. H got a call from a buddy about golf today. I went into the bedroom & changed my clothes.....grabbed my purse & started to head out. H asked where I was going. I told him I had to run out for something. He asked where? I said Why? He said....I want to know where. I told him the pharmacy & I left. I was gone about an hour. I came back in with a much better PMA. H had his ring on. Not sure what that was all about.

H sat watching baseball last night and I helped D3 to bed. H was in the bedroom watching by the time I was done. H was turned away from me.

H had to work this morning. He just got up, asked if he could take my vehicle, said good-bye & left. We'll see if he calls today. I thought he was golfing right after work, but he didn't take his clubs with & he took something out of the freezer for dinner tonight.

Oh, and I think H looked at MY phone this morning. I had called my good friend when I left here last night so I could get my frustration out before coming back home. Maybe he was looking to see if I'd called someone.

Sorry for not contributing much to everyone's thread this morning. Just had to come here to vent.

I need to go and get some things done!

Have a good Saturday. I promise to check in later.

SueS