LO, it REALLY sounds like you are doing well. It's so nice when WE can get to the point where we are finally more concerned about ourselves and our happiness and decide, "they will do what they are going to do" and if it includes you, great, and you WILL get through the emotions, etc. of the A and the whole sitch.
You never will see H as the "same person" you married, but hopefully you 2 can get to a better place together and have a better M than if all of this would not have happened.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
