I hate to tell him but he already has....he chose to have an A...that was the wrong decision. It's amazing how screwed up our WAS's thinking is. I think all their rational thinking is gone. Does he not think that you are wondering if taking him back is the wrong decision? It seems that you should be a lot more petrified than him...what if you would make the wrong decision by taking him back...what if he as another affair...what if...what if. Life is full of what-ifs...you make a decision and you live the best you can with it...that's what life is all about. I guess that's the difference between the WAS and LBS. The LBS can deal with consequences...the WAS will just want to run again.
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