Mal..glad to hear things might be getting better..I will take the time to read through your posts..Yes.. I believe in prayer, I just don't know how to pray..I have just begun to get more involved in our church..we have 2 new, great ministers, and their sermons are so meaningful and seem to have fit into our lives lately..h does finances there..in choir..so I do see him there on Sundays.He confided in one of the ministers when he was thinking he needed to leave, and she told him he needed to do what he thought was right for him, and I have never told him or anyone(except here) that that bothers me that she would almost encourage him to leave a m. She is d, and I hope that she does not encourage that. Am i crazy to worry about that? They have become good friends and have been seen out to lunch, and someone he knows asked a friend if that was his new girlfriend..how sad..I don't really worry about that, yet a part of me knows what other people think and say..and I would think that they should consider that too. I think h does not understand what people see and repeat, and I would hate to see someone report the minister is out with a seperated man. Oh ..I did not mean to get off on that..but it does bother me or I would not keep bringing it up..but if you have read back in my threads, the fact that my h had/has a ff and they did things together contributed to our problems...mainly me not thinking that married people can have opposite sex friends..I have come along way on those thinkings..but a small part of it bothers me..
Jethro..we do pretty good talking, if there is really something to say..he has helped me try to deal with a co-worker in a calm way..we talk ok about house, church stuff..so maybe he is ready to talk about us stuff... Will see in time.
