i reckon the idea of a M that just clicks and everything falls into place is a complete myth.
Marriage is like driving - you only really learn how to drive after you pass your test. When I got married I had NO IDEA about the amount of work I would have to put in to keep it going. I thought it would all just click into place and I'd get forgiven anything. How naieve - I know better now.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.