In my sitch the OW worked for my H. I strogly suggested to her that sick leave was a god option. Whilst she was on it she negotiated a package to leave the job. She managed to search for a new job whilst on sick leave. Her doctor just put the pressure of her current job down as being her reason for being on sick leave. I know it was different for me as my H was the chief Exec and so there was absolutely no question as to who had to leave, but it really did relieve the atmosphere, and altho' I know where she works now there has been no contact between H anh OW.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength