Edie,
I have been following your sitch and I am sorry that this is happening to you. Your husband seems like such a lost little boy, and unfair though it seems, you have to be the one to comfort him and 'bring him home'. Retro certainly seems to have polarised his feelings somewhat and even if he doesn't quit on Monday I get the feeling he will soon. He looks like he is heading for a breakdown - does he get sick pay? Can he be signed off sick for a while? This might give you more of an opportunity to bond with him without OW in the picture and for you to do more of the Retro excercises without her sabotaging him.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength