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789 #1211396 09/25/07 06:46 PM
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789 - that is so great that everything is finally heading in the right direction for you. You give me hope for my situation. I must say though I have no idea how you went for 5 months like you did. I am struggling with my 6 weeks right now.

Keep it up and keep us posted. YEAH!!!! And have fun tonight.


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789 - that is so great that everything is finally heading in the right direction for you. You give me hope for my situation. I must say though I have no idea how you went for 5 months like you did. I am struggling with my 6 weeks right now.

Keep it up and keep us posted. YEAH!!!! And have fun tonight.


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That's great, 789. You have the patience of a saint. I don't know how you do it, but you are awesome. Baby steps are still steps in the right direction!

Have fun at the concert with W! Keep us posted because you give us all hope.


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789 #1211678 09/25/07 11:21 PM
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Originally Posted By: 789

I did tell her she had to come straight home after work since I had to "leave" for an appointment, which is a lie. I have a babysitter for the night and two tickets to Justin Timberlake for this evening. If that does not get her excited I give up, lol.


I'll be at JT tonight as well. I'm in the VIP Lounge next to the stage..... Here's my idea: Give your wife my ticket so JT can actually drip sweat on her (that'll get her excited even more for you) and I'll take her ticket so you and I can hang out in the bar. I'm going with three women, so your wife will be safe with them.

Come on, man.......this is a great idea!!!


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Bomb #1 - 12-24-06: Move out (ILYBNILWY - admitted '05 PA)
Move back: 3-2-07 (W: I still want to be married to you)
Bomb # 2 - 4-11-07: (W: Can't do this - never loved you)
Move out again: 4-29-07
Dark: 6-8-07

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lol, well you posted that a couple of hours to late, she would of been in 7th heaven. She filled her phone and my phone with video clips. I swear I was with a 13 year old school girl as excited as she was.

Want to make the same offer for Van Halen? lol


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DAD you are soooo cool!!!! A true VIP. 789 that was the best gift ever, man!!!!! Kudos to your thoughtfulness.


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I admit I have been bad and not checking in much, but it is hard with the computer in the living room.
Just stopped by to say I am still DB'ing, not much has really changed, but I am letting her take her sweet ole time to figure out her next baby step. I really have nothing to complain about considering what the 6 months prior to this last month was like. Actually being back in the same residence and attempting to rebuild is in many ways a lot harder than I ever had it being separated.


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789 #1222844 10/06/07 09:03 AM
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Actually being back in the same residence and attempting to rebuild is in many ways a lot harder than I ever had it being separated.

I would love some more insight on this? What makes you say this? I am not disagreeing. I am just very curious as to what your are experiencing.


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I have also noticed that theme in Piecing. I am not Piecing but I snooped and it is a patient journey in that forum. The roller coaster ride continues but there is a light at the end of the tunnel and at least you can see it, while some of us are still in the dark! Stay golden.


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I know this is irrelavent, but your name reminds me of that joke "Why is six afraid of seven? Because seven eight nine." I have a nine year old. Sorry.

I too am curious about what you are experiencig and how you are handling things. Keep us posted. We are all trying to get where you are! You've come a long way!


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"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9
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