I removed myself from my IL's so that they can't hurt me. I am pleasant to them and don't stop any acess to my kids but I don't involve myself emotionally with them. They have proved time and time again that my H is there priority. Well good for them. I guess if it was my child in this situatuion maybe I would do the same. You don't know excatly what you wife has told them. Just take the high road and be the 'bigger' person. That way you know you have no regrets.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength