Originally Posted By: saffie
This looks like bloood being thicker thanwater and maybe they think they can influence their daughter more by being on the inside track with her. Do not read too much into it.

Saffie


Thank you Saffie. I understand that and I am ok with whatever they want to do. I will not read too much into it.

However, I am struggling with detaching from her family and figuring out the best way to handle them. Primarily because I saw how my MIL got my W into the tunnel. Over the last 2 years I feel she has supported her in going wayward and seeing OMs. I am struggling with my inner self how to act 'as if' with the ILs, knowing fully well that they are keeping the tunnel secure and protected. Do you have some advice?