Looks like your W is touching base with you to make sure she still has her security blanket. I would keep pressing on your DBing and detaching more. Keep it up man and keep enjoying the nice little purchases and things you're doing to make your new home the right home.
Had an overall good day here making plans for GAL-ing and looking for new friends. But I am bummed out this evening after I found out a few things.
First my W accused me in an email of getting the attorneys involved when I requested that we get together and discuss the re-allocation of assets, spousal support and custody of kids. I think we owe it to ourselves to sort these things before the lawyers and the court get involved. But I just sense some raw nerve in her email about the way she accused me of fetching the Ls on her. I reminded her in a polite way that the reason I got the Ls involved was to protect my kids and my parental rights. I haven't heard back from her, since she is planning to be out of town with her OM this weekend. How fun!
the second thing has to do with my ILs. remember I told you I was debating about how to treat them? I did decide to take the high road and invited them over for a brunch at my (our) house and planned a day full of fun together with the kids on next Sunday, since my W is working that day. Well I felt good about my decision. Until this evening when I come to find out that my MIL is going to give company to my W and her OM at a country western dance bar on late Saturday night, the night before they visit me. Whats up with parents, especially those who have been married for nearly 50 years in supporting their MLC kids while they mess up their lives? Why are they so chicken in standing up for the good and the right when it comes to their kids? When we have agreed to D, does it make us eligible to go out and have fun and frolic with OM or OW right in front of the parents' eyes? Am I missing something with this moral standard?
The more I go through this the more determined I get to come out of this as a better human being and yearning for a more enjoyable journey of life. BRING IT ON!!
