called h tonight to ask for his sisters work number, I was going to ask her to go to movie(I know a sly move to ask h to go!)he said he would go..picked me up, then after sil asked if we wanted to go back to mil for pizza..oh why can't he decide what he wants..it would be a little easier to understand if he would just say " I don't think I want to be m anymore", or "I think I would like us to work on our m, but give me some more time alone"..anything.....