Going camping on the driveway with my son tonight and then son has baseball game at 8:30 am so I will not be back until the after noon. I don't know if it is my imagination but it does seem like W is trying. It has taken work on my part too. I am trying not to say the wrong thing. My son and I are going to make B day cupcakes for W. When I got home she was really happy about that. I got her a card but did not realize how hard it would be to find a mushy card that would not some how relate to the OM. Like one said something to the affect that "A wife is someone to keep my secrets with" ya right. My card is out in the jeep. When I get back on I will post that it says. Theo my buddy I feel so bad for you. I feel bad like I may be leaving you behind. I can't get too excited yet. I am NOT there yet and anything can change. It just feels different. I mean the air in the house seems lighter. I think the letter was good. I think it released my W about having to discuses what happened with the OM. As long as I can refrain from bringing him up everything should be ok. I know some day we will need to talk about what happened. Just not yet. I am going to get that book LWB. I too need a book that did not require two people to read. My W has a hard time admitting she needs help. Ok I took up enough of your time. THEO GOOD MOJO IS COMMING YOUR WAY. Remember I did read that book Secrets. It may be baloney in some people’s eyes and I don't believe it totally but hey I may be kissing my W this weekend.
Night everyone noting but good thoughts being sent your way from me.
Love ya all Manuel
Last edited by husband; 10/06/0703:21 AM.
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