I get them from my Comcast.net sign on and Yahoo.com they are usually pretty close to the same prediction. I only ˝ believe them but it is weird when the are so close to reality.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Husband - Would like to know your W's response when you say "I love you". I don't dare say that to my W, what with the OM around and the D in progress. She would just shrug me off.
Hope it goes well!
Larry
M 63 W 40 M 4/91 S14/D9 bomb 7/6/07 D filed 8/3/07 final 2/4/08 thread
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
Going camping on the driveway with my son tonight and then son has baseball game at 8:30 am so I will not be back until the after noon. I don't know if it is my imagination but it does seem like W is trying. It has taken work on my part too. I am trying not to say the wrong thing. My son and I are going to make B day cupcakes for W. When I got home she was really happy about that. I got her a card but did not realize how hard it would be to find a mushy card that would not some how relate to the OM. Like one said something to the affect that "A wife is someone to keep my secrets with" ya right. My card is out in the jeep. When I get back on I will post that it says. Theo my buddy I feel so bad for you. I feel bad like I may be leaving you behind. I can't get too excited yet. I am NOT there yet and anything can change. It just feels different. I mean the air in the house seems lighter. I think the letter was good. I think it released my W about having to discuses what happened with the OM. As long as I can refrain from bringing him up everything should be ok. I know some day we will need to talk about what happened. Just not yet. I am going to get that book LWB. I too need a book that did not require two people to read. My W has a hard time admitting she needs help. Ok I took up enough of your time. THEO GOOD MOJO IS COMMING YOUR WAY. Remember I did read that book Secrets. It may be baloney in some people’s eyes and I don't believe it totally but hey I may be kissing my W this weekend.
Night everyone noting but good thoughts being sent your way from me.
Love ya all Manuel
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I will be thinking of you all weekend. I hope it is all you hope it will be. You deserve it and your wife's attitude since you wrote the email makes me think she will be responsive to your requests. Good Luck and lots of
((((((((((HUGS))))))))))) Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
I am glad that things are going well. Curious that she has not mentioned the email (unless I missed the post where you said she did - possible because I've been on the road). She has heard your message, and she can see that you have made a lot of progress.
However, I will tell you what I tell my football players: The moment that you think you "have it down," the minute that you are confident you know what you are doing and your work is done... you need to crank it up an notch and try harder. Stay focused, and try to always improve.
It's how we all ended up here. It's advice we all should heed (especially me ).
Glad the air has lightened. That is a big difference. Today should be a very good day. But don't feel you have to leave the boards if you solve your problem. We can always use the perspective of success stories here.
I am thrilled for you and yoyo.....you will be success stories, I just know it.